Mistress Talia: a sadistic domme

This is a fun story; I got to be a complete bitch and yet it was completely justifiable as an educational experience.

I had met a newbie to BDSM online, and had given him all the typical safety advice, such as "don't let a stranger tie you up" and "meet in a public place first" and " make sure someone knows where you are".

I met him for the first time in real life at a local hotel. I tied him inescapably to the bed and then asked what safety precautions he'd taken.

For those of you a bit tired of hearing about puppy in all my scene reports, I am writing up a cam scene with a caller (with his permission).

Bob called me a few nights ago, wanting to experience a bit of cock-and-ball torture. He's a newbie to CBT, so I decided to proceed slowly. I gave him instructions to gather some stuff from around the house (shoelaces, scissors, clothespins, Vick's VapoRub and a candle), set up his cam, and call me back when he was ready to start.

I've been incredibly busy lately with preparations for the holidays as we're hosting both Thanksgiving and Christmas this year, so lots of shopping, cooking and baking to do.

As such, I've had little time for puppy and little time for NF. But I managed to combine both into a scene the other day.

So me and my buddy went to this BDSM party a few years back. He reads here occasionally, so perhaps he'll comment and add more details.

The thing is, we're both wildly more successful at picking up chicks when we're together than on our own. I suspect I seem less intimidating because I'm with a guy and therefore not suspected of being a big bad dyke, and he is less intimidating because he's with a chick and therefore not a single guy on the prowl.

One day, puppy was taking me out to run errands. There was nothing fetish-y about this, we were just shopping together for the company. Generally, when we're not in scene, we behave as equals, and that usually applies in public.

But, I had a bit of a surprise for him...

OK, the election is over, so let's turn our attention back to kinky sex!

This is a scene that happened a few years ago. I had been threatening to cane this chick's feet for some time and she was both terrified and fascinated by the prospect.

The scene report "A Day With My Puppy" is now available as a recorded listing on Niteflirt.

This isn't a scene report, per se, but about a play party Talia and I attended a while back.

The party had a lovely sissy maid waiting on all of us.

It had been a pretty full day for my puppy - he'd been enema'd, crossdressed, set to service doing housework (which was interrupted by a spanking).

(continued from a day with my puppy (part 4))

As a prelude to this next bit, I need to mention a few things about the "rules." First, while I do phone domination, I am not a professional dominant. As a general rule, pro dommes do not allow sexual contact. My puppy is a personal relationship, he is not a client, so I don't have such rules with him.

(continued from a day with my puppy (part 3))

Puppy had had a pretty full day being sissified for housework, puppified for dinner, and then tortured for a while with clips before I took his ass with my strap-on. While he showered and cleaned up, he likely assumed we were done for the day, that he'd return and we'd chat out-of-role for a while until he left.

But I had other plans...

(continued from a day with my puppy (part 2))

I'm a sadist. I like to push a submissive just beyond what they can stand, to inflict a bit more pain than what they can experience as pleasure, to truly make them suffer for me. This is what I find most satisfying physically in scene.

While inexperienced at both crossdressing and practical service, puppy was a very experienced masochist when I met him. I can whip, spank, cane and flog him as hard as I am comfortable doing, and he just likes it. But tonight, I had a plan for pushing him beyond himself a bit... binder clips.

(continued from a day with my puppy (part 1))

Having puppy dressed as a maid didn't actually provide me with much in the way of useful help; puppy needed training.

I don't get to see puppy as often as we'd both like and rarely get a chance to spend an entire day and evening with him, so this particular day was quite a treat for both of us.

Usually, when someone is an anal virgin, it's best to introduce them gradually so as to avoid traumatizing them and turning them off the experience entirely. One uses lots of lube, ramps up gradually starting with a very small butt plug or a single finger, and proceeds slowly with patience in order to introduce them to anal sex in a way that ends up enjoyable for them even on a first time.

Of course, if it doesn't matter if the virgin is ever going to like anal sex, if you intend just to use this person's ass for your own pleasure regardless of theirs, if you actually prefer that it be painful for them, one doesn't need to proceed with quite so much care.

You can increase the perceived heat of hot wax using ice to contrast with, which makes the wax seem much hotter; this is the technique called "Fire and Ice."

A few weeks ago, I met "Puppy" at a local hotel room and tried a twist on the "Fire and Ice" technique.