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| Written by Lady Johanna |
| Friday, 08 August 2008 21:22 |
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Lately, I've been thinking about the forced bisexuality fantasy that so many submissives have.
For a long time, I assumed that this fantasy was about one particular thing, that some guys had a deep curiosity about bisexuality, but were too homophobic to let themselves express it. Having a woman "make" them do it made the whole thing seem heterosexual to them; they wouldn't have to wonder about their orientation because a domme "made" them do it. A sub who I see regularly has this fantasy. What surprised me was he told me about a year ago that he is not attracted to men - that he has no attraction to men whatsoever. If I tried to ask him if he thought someone we saw was cute, he just had no response. He wants to suck cock, but he doesn't care if the guy is hot or not cause he's just not into guys. To tell you the truth, I really didn't understand this. But I've heard it from a few other guys lately too. Today when I was out running errands, I got to wondering about it again. It just doesn't make sense to me how someone can want to suck cock and yet be completely unattracted to males! And as I mulled this over, I realized the subs who've told me this all have another common fantasy. Every one of them likes face-sitting; they like to have a domme force them to service her until she cums again and again. They love it when her cunt fills their mouth and she rubs her clit against their nose so hard they can barely breathe. They like her to pleasure herself without regard to their discomfort, to be used for her pleasure. I got to wondering if those subs want to be forced to suck cock for the same reason they want to be forced to eat pussy; if that is the real key to this fantasy for those guys. So... what do you think? Is it a matter of wanting to be used, to be treated as a sex toy? Is that why you want me to force you to suck a cock? Post your comments here if you dare, or call me to discuss privately. followup posts: forced bisexuality revisited - part 1 forced bisexuality revisited - part 2 |
Strange, yes. Can I explain it? No. I would suck a Cd's cock wiht no forcing though.
Guess I'm one of those strange ones, LOL!
A lot of it is about the submission i suppose, being dominated and used by someone else. I love the thought of getting on my knees and becoming the "bitch" of some hung stud while a hot girl teases me about how he is so much bigger and better all the while encouraging me to suck it. I imagine that is where a lot of the guys who "want to suck cock" but aren't gay are coming from.
I don't have thoughts about being bi unless it was because a woman ordered me to do so.
I believe that it is the humiliation that we submissives desire. We have a poor self-image of ourselves for a variety of reasons (small dick, overweight, financially unsuccessful, etc) and have a need to have ourselves emotionally punished for our failures in life.
What can be more humiliating to a man than to take away everything that defines him as a man by forcing him to his knees to service a real man's large cock? I find that being on my knees, my eyes locked with his, desperately seeking his approval as he fucks my face and cums down my throat is the ultimate transfer of any remaining self-respect and manhood I have left. Having a woman present who is taking pictures and taunting me by calling me names just adds to the sweet emotional punishment.
It is a cathartic experience to realize that I SHOULD be unsuccessful and SHOULD have a poor self-image because I am nothing but a worthless mouth slut whose only redeeming use is to serve as an oral slave to pleasure the sexual whims and desires of others. If I am forced to obey another man or woman's orders, then they are in charge, and I don't have to worry about making another wrong decision that will make me a further failure. There is a lot of pleasure in the release of responsibility and the self-fulfilling feeling of humiliation. In that moment of service to others, submissives like us reach our virtual mental orgasm.
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What I do desire and need is to feel "Pretty, Desirable, Sexy, and Feminine" to completely submerge myself into the "Wonderful World of Femininity." To allow my natural submissive persona to surrender to all the feelings, mannerisms, and behaviors that a truly Ultra-Feminine Woman would possess. Maybe I am not a Real Sissy because humiliation, embarrassment, and domination are not part of my desires, dreams, or fantasies ... I want to give in to my feminine desires to become an "Ultra-Feminine Goddess" and then let my natural submissiveness guide me as I please, pleasure, and satisfy any and all desires, urges, and fantasies of any admire I may have the fortune of seducing and servicing.
Treat me like a Feminine Sex-Goddess and I will make sure you leave feeling like the Master/Mistress of the Universe. No Force Necessary.
Let me explain. I love to be forced to doll myself up as a sexy lady -- short, tight, low-cut cocktail dress, killer makeup and hair, do-me stilettos to die for, the works -- and then go out with a guy on a date. I'd be his submissive arm candy. I'd let him put his arm around me, and kiss me, and maybe cop a feel or pinch my ass, as long as he was discreet about it. The sort of making out a couple would do in a dimly lit, romantic restaurant.
But I wouldn't suck his dick or allow genital contact. And if he stuck his hand up my skirt, I'd slap his face.
In other words, I'm a forced-fem cock-tease who draws the line at second base. :)
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For me, it started because I have long had a fscination with forced fantasies, including books, stories, graphic novels, and video that feature simulated rape along with forced orgasms. Some stories included "cuckold fantasies," and with that began my interest. It appears the more I get involved in the BDSM world, both real-life and in SecondLife, the stronger bisexual submission fantasies get.
Like those above, I have no attraction to men whatsoever (though if I were to play out my fantasies in real life, I would prefer it be with an attractive male, not an old, fat, unclean one). In fact, I ADORE everything about a woman's beauty, their facial features as well if not more than any body part. And I am also quite Dom. So may fantasies confuse me.
My theories as to why this comes about are multiple. (1) Starting long ago, I noticed when I masturbated alone in bed after reading a rape or forced orgasm story or watchinag a video, I sometimes would picture myself AS THE WOMAN (not in her place, but actually BEING her)--much like my main theory as to why I, personally, enjoy lesbianism so much (though some women have sex with men simply because they know their boyfriend/husband expects it and they want to please him, you know when lesbians are having sex, at least ONE of them thoroughly enjoys it and craves it--and any woman who is as much of a slut as I am is a turn on to me), if I imagine being the woman, I can make it a FACT in my fantasy that the woman enjoys (orgasms from) the forced sex. Once you start ijmaging being th ewoman, it is not too hard to understand eventually picturing yourself in the woman' place as yourself. (2) I watch a lot of porn, an dincreasingly, the whole POV (point-of-view) concept is heavily featured. The women are all very eager. Similar to (1), I can imagine being them and enjoying the fantasy that they lvoe cocksucking. Furthermore, becasue of this i have seen a lot of cock closeups, love watching them go inside of women's orifices, and seeing them worshipped. I think it is simple transference for me to start seeing them (the cocks minus the men's faces and rest of their bodies) makes them start to become attractive to me. (3) When I started playing in SecondLife, I took the advice of a journalist who had given it as try, and took on a female character's role, because half the time you are following your own ass, and especially when you've bought a sexy walk, it is far more fun following a sexy almost-nude female ass around the universe than it is following a dressed male ass. Having this experience made me realize that, as a Dom, I enjoyed learngin what is it slike from the subumissive's perspective--not just what you yourself experience but from talking with othe rsubmissives who you befriend, and it is also interesting learning the approaches of other Doms. So part of the submissive fantasy for me is to understnad the other side, which will make me a better Dom. (4) The more I enjoy kinky sex, the more kinky I like it. There is nothing more "taboo" for a straight Dom than to be a bi sub. The kink is more attractive than the man.
This is a great site. Thank you for sharing your life with us. My sub is bi so she likes it, too.