Mistress Talia: a sadistic domme

Because my original post on forced bisexuality got so much response, I posted a followup about forced bi.

I wasn't able to get everything I wanted to address into the followup, so here's the second followup.

"Sam" wrote: Like others mentioned above, I am heterosexual. love sucking breasts & licking pussies, have no interest in any anal activities or even any reciprocal BJs, and do not ogle men. I believe that it is the humiliation that we submissives desire. We have a poor self-image of ourselves for a variety of reasons (small dick, overweight, financially unsuccessful, etc) and have a need to have ourselves emotionally punished for our failures in life. What can be more humiliating to a man than to take away everything that defines him as a man by forcing him to his knees to service a real man's large cock? I find that being on my knees, my eyes locked with his, desperately seeking his approval as he fucks my face and cums down my throat is the ultimate transfer of any remaining self-respect and manhood I have left. Having a woman present who is taking pictures and taunting me by calling me names just adds to the sweet emotional punishment. It is a cathartic experience to realize that I SHOULD be unsuccessful and SHOULD have a poor self-image because I am nothing but a worthless mouth slut whose only redeeming use is to serve as an oral slave to pleasure the sexual whims and desires of others. If I am forced to obey another man or woman's orders, then they are in charge, and I don't have to worry about making another wrong decision that will make me a further failure. There is a lot of pleasure in the release of responsibility and the self-fulfilling feeling of humiliation. In that moment of service to others, submissives like us reach our virtual mental orgasm.

Sam, your description of the freedom of submission is spot on to a lot of what I understand about it. As a sub, your job is to do what your domme wants; she takes the responsibility of making you pleasing to her. All the pressure is off you, all you have to do is obey.

"Heather" wrote: For me it is not just about "being used" but about the emasculation of being "forced" to suck a cock. I've always been attracted physically to women more than men, not really to men at all, but the autogynophelic pleasure of a woman watching me such a guy, and kind of forcing me to, is so hot. It is the humiliation of being unmanned.

Heather, I had to Google "autogynophelic" - and your comment was one of the few pages that showed up! No definitions out there, though you can sort of feel what the word means... loving feeling like a female.

I absolutely can understand this sort of feeling myself. There are times when... I'm playing some music, singing along all aroused and feeling powerful, and it just overwhelms me that I have PUSSY POWER!.

Though I can somehow "get" the humiliation of being unmanned, I do start to find it a bit offensive if a sissy tells me he finds it humiliating to be feminized. Being female doesn't seem humiliating to me at all.

On the other hand, some of what I put sissies through would feel humiliating to me. Dressing up like a girly girl in a tutu seems pretty damned humiliating to me; it's not related to feminization so much as the kind of feminization.

None of you sissies ever wanna be the kind of girl I am, strong, powerful, and capable of working in a man's world. No one ever asks me to crossdress them into being a truck driver. ;)

It's one of the distinctions I make between sissies and real transexual women; transexual women don't "want" to be female, they just are. Even when being female means hiking boots and camping rather than frills and makeup.

For me, well, I like sissies. I like playing with the humiliation, I enjoy making you do ridiculous things to amuse me.

"Michelle Jo" writes: I am kind of like others here in the fact that I do not desire or feel urges to sexually satisfy Men. What I do desire and need is to feel "Pretty, Desirable, Sexy, and Feminine" to completely submerge myself into the "Wonderful World of Femininity." To allow my natural submissive persona to surrender to all the feelings, mannerisms, and behaviors that a truly Ultra-Feminine Woman would possess. Maybe I am not a Real Sissy because humiliation, embarrassment, and domination are not part of my desires, dreams, or fantasies ... I want to give in to my feminine desires to become an "Ultra-Feminine Goddess" and then let my natural submissiveness guide me as I please, pleasure, and satisfy any and all desires, urges, and fantasies of any admire I may have the fortune of seducing and servicing. Treat me like a Feminine Sex-Goddess and I will make sure you leave feeling like the Master/Mistress of the Universe. No Force Necessary.

I don't think anything you've said makes you "not a real sissy". Forced bi is one thing, sissy is another thing, submission is a third. We're all wired differently and come at it from different motivations.

From your description, you sound more like a sissy than anything else to me.

Women feel the same way, that we want to feel beautiful and attractive. Doesn't always mean we want guys bugging us though. That's what dyke bars are for. ;)

Marie wrote: I'm a straight male who's a forced-fem sub. I'm into forced bi dating ... but not sex. Let me explain. I love to be forced to doll myself up as a sexy lady -- short, tight, low-cut cocktail dress, killer makeup and hair, do-me stilettos to die for, the works -- and then go out with a guy on a date. I'd be his submissive arm candy. I'd let him put his arm around me, and kiss me, and maybe cop a feel or pinch my ass, as long as he was discreet about it. The sort of making out a couple would do in a dimly lit, romantic restaurant. But I wouldn't suck his dick or allow genital contact. And if he stuck his hand up my skirt, I'd slap his face. In other words, I'm a forced-fem cock-tease who draws the line at second base. :)

Marie, you crack me up! Have you ever been able to live this fantasy?

I'm not much into dolling myself up, but I can see doing so if I knew you. We could double-date and be cock-teases together!

"What kind of girl do you think I am?" said all self-righteously. ;)

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The utterly kewl thing about being a big old pervert is how many different types of perverts there are out there to entertain me! Fantasies I've never considered before get stuck in my head and give me brand-new whack-off material!

Seriously, some of you really ought to call me so we can play!