Mistress Talia: a sadistic domme

My original post on this topic has gotten more hits and comments than everything else on this blog. So it seems time to revisit this topic a bit.

A lot of you have a lot of thoughts on this topic that I wanted to address and figured I could get a blogpost out of it.

"insearchofme" wrote: I am not a sub, however I do have a forced bi fantasy. I too am not attracted to guys but if a woman "forced" me to suck cock I certainly would do so. Strange, yes. Can I explain it? No. I would suck a Cd's cock with no forcing though. Guess I'm one of those strange ones, LOL!

I think a lot of guys feel differently about a crossdresser that passes than they do about a man. Look at how popular tranny web porn is, and it's aimed at straight guys, not gay guys.

I'm bisexual myself, but don't find the tranny stuff hot; on the other hand, I know a straight chick who is gaga over the stuff.

It makes you think things aren't so straightforward - that the categories straight, bi and gay are simply not enough categories to explain ourselves to each other.

"chris" wrote:I've had this type of fantasy for years. I have no attraction to guys, but a big fat cock certainly makes my mouth water. A lot of it is about the submission I suppose, being dominated and used by someone else. I love the thought of getting on my knees and becoming the "bitch" of some hung stud while a hot girl teases me about how he is so much bigger and better all the while encouraging me to suck it. I imagine that is where a lot of the guys who "want to suck cock" but aren't gay are coming from.

It just goes to show how we're all different, I guess. I'm bi myself, often attracted to guys, especially if they're funny or witty. But I feel the absolute opposite of you about cock. Cocks can be fun to tease or play with, especially cbt, but I don't have that feeling about them being hot in themselves. I do feel that way about pussy though. I freaking LOVE cunt!

"Achilles" writes:i like the guys above I have had this and similar fantasies for years. i am a switch guy who loves to dominated girls but has a real desire to be submissive to guys and especially forced bi sexuality for a mistress. these are really strong fantasies for me but totally at odds with my tough macho guy normal life. i have had 3 sexual encounters with guys all dom's (allegedly) where i have both sucked cock and been fucked up the arse. although pleasing in some ways all have been deeply unfulfilling in relation to my desires and i have left vowing never to do such a thing again. however these desire persist, like the guys above i have no sexual attraction to men in the slightest but seem to be aroused by penises? i know! i have never tried forced bi with a mistress but it may be the answer. please comment or if anyone want to discuss further i'll contact you.

Sometimes I think instead of doing the Niteflirt thing, I should set up a dating service for you forced bi guys. How many of you are in central PA? ;)

I think for guys who are not really queer, having a woman there really reduces the homophobia. And I'm not even talking about the stuff about fear of being really queer. Just reducing the fear of getting beaten up in a nonconsensual manner by some homophobic dude who might be quite happy to get a BJ, and then freak out on ya afterwards.

"slave" wrote:I've been bi once before, a Mistress restrained me and ordered me to suck cock. While I was on my knees, she pulled on my hair, twisted my wrists and made it quite clear that I was to suck cock or she and the man would both take turns hurting me. Afterwards, she punished me anyway for being such a slut. I don't have thoughts about being bi unless it was because a woman ordered me to do so.

It sounds like it's entirely the "forced" bit rather than the "bi" bit that gets to you.

Is it that a woman can control you so thoroughly to make you do something so nasty?

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I haven't gotten to all the comments just yet, so will post about this again later. I find it interesting how far we've gone though. There's so much intertwined, forced bisexuality, sissification, submission - and often not intertwined, depending on the person.

I really appreciate all of you sharing what it is that makes you hot about it. The variety of motivations for the very same fetish is interesting.

If you have a domme, whether on the phone or in real life, be sure she knows this stuff about you. Understanding your motivations isn't a matter of her catering to you, it's a matter of her fully understanding your buttons so she can push them perfectly. In short, you give your domina the power to control you to her own purposes when you give her information about your buttons.