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forced bisexuality Print E-mail
Written by Lady Johanna   
Friday, 08 August 2008 21:22
Lately, I've been thinking about the forced bisexuality fantasy that so many submissives have.

For a long time, I assumed that this fantasy was about one particular thing, that some guys had a deep curiosity about bisexuality, but were too homophobic to let themselves express it. Having a woman "make" them do it made the whole thing seem heterosexual to them; they wouldn't have to wonder about their orientation because a domme "made" them do it.
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foot fetish fantasy comes true Print E-mail
Written by Lady Johanna   
Friday, 15 August 2008 00:46
This is a very cool story told to me by a buddy of mine who is a truck driver. It seems my buddy has a major foot fetish. I don't know why he confessed it to me as he has never managed to confess it to his wife!
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strap-ons - not just for women anymore
Written by Lady Johanna   
Friday, 22 August 2008 00:03
I don't understand why it seems people think strap-ons are exclusively to be worn by ladies. Sure, I enjoy wearing one, there's nothing quite like fucking a sub.

But sometimes, I like to *be* fucked. If a scene is intended for me to *use* the submissive for my pleasure, one of the options open to me is having him wear a strap-on.
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the psychogenic orgasm
Written by Lady Johanna   
Tuesday, 26 August 2008 22:33
A psychogenic orgasm is one that occurs entirely from mental stimulation rather than physical stimulation. It it the thesis of this blog post that sexuality is primarily mental, rather than physical; as they say, the largest sex organ is the brain.
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WIITWD - defining our fetishes
Written by Mistress Talia   
Monday, 08 September 2008 09:10
One of the more bizarre aspects of the BDSM scene is just how many acronyms there are.

I think overall my favorite is WIITWD - what it is that we do. It's the most inclusive, embracing kinks of all types.
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crossdressing
Written by Lady Johanna   
Tuesday, 16 September 2008 10:53
There's so many types of crossdressers that it's a tricky fetish to discuss as the motivations from one person to another can vary tremendously. Crossdressing is often part-and-parcel of an entire fantasy scenario with several other fetishes, though can also be a stand-alone fetish.
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Is calling a phone dominant or seeing a pro domme cheating?
Written by Lady Johanna   
Saturday, 20 September 2008 07:36
This question was posed in a thread over on All Star Doms, a forum where professional dominants and their admirers chat.

I like the forum, it has a lot more participation than most of it's type. It doesn't feel like it's just there for women to drum up customers. People actually talk and discuss things, both scene-related and otherwise.

Here is what I posted as my thoughts on the topic of whether or not seeing or calling a domme constitutes cheating on your girlfriend or wife.
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calling all foot fetishists!
Written by Lady Johanna   
Tuesday, 07 October 2008 11:23
As you know, we're not into having recognizable pictures of ourselves all over the internet. But it occurs to me that shouldn't stop me from publishing foot pictures!

I'm thinking of a photo set to sell via Niteflirt, a few pictures in stockings, various shoes, and even a few bare.
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how feminine are you?
Written by Lady Johanna   
Sunday, 12 October 2008 01:47
For the sissies and crossdressers, I have a couple quizzes here for your to rate how feminized you are. Take them and compare your scores to mine below.
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Halloween: kinkiest holiday
Written by Lady Johanna   
Friday, 17 October 2008 00:34
As the holiday approaches, I know many of you are thinking about coming out of the closet for the duration. Halloween is the perfect excuse to indulge your kinkiness without raising eyebrows.

For example, Talia once dressed as a domme to a corporate job on Halloween, claiming she had come as the "web mistress" since she did their web development work. No one noticed that instead of a cheapo costume whip, she had a few hundred bucks in real floggers.
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for my new GTS friends
Written by Lady Johanna   
Tuesday, 28 October 2008 15:56
My Giantess Fantasy was very popular with the GTS community, so I thought I'd give you a bit of a treat.

For all you giantess fans...
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introduction to erotic hypnosis
Written by Lady Johanna   
Friday, 07 November 2008 00:29
Today, I'm going to discuss erotic hypnosis. But before I get into the erotic uses of hypnosis, I want to begin by discussing hypnosis more generally.
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about domination and sadism
Written by Lady Johanna   
Saturday, 15 November 2008 09:18
I posted this to The PhoneSex Space a while back in reply to a forum thread about domination styles and thought it would be appropriate here:
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femdom phonesex
Written by Lady Johanna   
Sunday, 23 November 2008 16:13
Is femdom phonesex itself a fetish?

True, a lot of guys choose phone domination because they don't have a domme in real life, can't afford or are afraid of professional dominants, or simply can't be "out" in the BDSM scene due to their lives.

But some choose femdom phonesex because that is exactly what they want.
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smoking fetish
Written by Lady Johanna   
Saturday, 29 November 2008 18:57
a nicotine-stick is so naughty It's really convenient for those few of us who have managed to avoid the peer pressure to quit smoking that some of you get off on it!

For so long, cigarettes were the mark of the "bad" girl; how you knew someone was more "naughty" than "nice." I'm not surprised so many guys find it attractive.
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sissies - pee like a girl!
Written by Lady Johanna   
Sunday, 07 December 2008 14:51
A GREAT tip for sissies via our friend Ms. Tracy...
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