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Written by Lady Johanna
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Friday, 08 August 2008 21:22 |
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Lately, I've been thinking about the forced bisexuality fantasy that so many submissives have.
For a long time, I assumed that this fantasy was about one particular thing, that some guys had a deep curiosity about bisexuality, but were too homophobic to let themselves express it. Having a woman "make" them do it made the whole thing seem heterosexual to them; they wouldn't have to wonder about their orientation because a domme "made" them do it. |
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Written by Lady Johanna
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Friday, 15 August 2008 00:46 |
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This is a very cool story told to me by a buddy of mine who is a truck driver. It seems my buddy has a major foot fetish. I don't know why he confessed it to me as he has never managed to confess it to his wife!
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Written by Lady Johanna
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Friday, 22 August 2008 00:03 |
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I don't understand why it seems people think strap-ons are exclusively to be worn by ladies. Sure, I enjoy wearing one, there's nothing quite like fucking a sub.
But sometimes, I like to *be* fucked. If a scene is intended for me to *use* the submissive for my pleasure, one of the options open to me is having him wear a strap-on.
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Written by Lady Johanna
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Tuesday, 26 August 2008 22:33 |
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A psychogenic orgasm is one that occurs entirely from mental stimulation rather than physical stimulation. It it the thesis of this blog post that sexuality is primarily mental, rather than physical; as they say, the largest sex organ is the brain.
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Written by Mistress Talia
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Monday, 08 September 2008 09:10 |
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One of the more bizarre aspects of the BDSM scene is just how many acronyms there are.
I think overall my favorite is WIITWD - what it is that we do. It's the most inclusive, embracing kinks of all types.
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Written by Lady Johanna
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Tuesday, 16 September 2008 10:53 |
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There's so many types of crossdressers that it's a tricky fetish to discuss as the motivations from one person to another can vary tremendously. Crossdressing is often part-and-parcel of an entire fantasy scenario with several other fetishes, though can also be a stand-alone fetish.
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Written by Lady Johanna
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Saturday, 20 September 2008 07:36 |
This question was posed in a thread over on All Star Doms, a forum where professional dominants and their admirers chat.
I like the forum, it has a lot more participation than most of it's type. It doesn't feel like it's just there for women to drum up customers. People actually talk and discuss things, both scene-related and otherwise.
Here is what I posted as my thoughts on the topic of whether or not seeing or calling a domme constitutes cheating on your girlfriend or wife.
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Written by Lady Johanna
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Tuesday, 07 October 2008 11:23 |
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As you know, we're not into having recognizable pictures of ourselves all over the internet. But it occurs to me that shouldn't stop me from publishing foot pictures!
I'm thinking of a photo set to sell via Niteflirt, a few pictures in stockings, various shoes, and even a few bare.
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Written by Lady Johanna
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Sunday, 12 October 2008 01:47 |
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For the sissies and crossdressers, I have a couple quizzes here for your to rate how feminized you are. Take them and compare your scores to mine below.
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Written by Lady Johanna
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Friday, 17 October 2008 00:34 |
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As the holiday approaches, I know many of you are thinking about coming out of the closet for the duration. Halloween is the perfect excuse to indulge your kinkiness without raising eyebrows.
For example, Talia once dressed as a domme to a corporate job on Halloween, claiming she had come as the "web mistress" since she did their web development work. No one noticed that instead of a cheapo costume whip, she had a few hundred bucks in real floggers.
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Written by Lady Johanna
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Tuesday, 28 October 2008 15:56 |
My Giantess Fantasy was very popular with the GTS community, so I thought I'd give you a bit of a treat.
For all you giantess fans...
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Written by Lady Johanna
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Friday, 07 November 2008 00:29 |
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Today, I'm going to discuss erotic hypnosis. But before I get into the erotic uses of hypnosis, I want to begin by discussing hypnosis more generally.
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Written by Lady Johanna
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Saturday, 15 November 2008 09:18 |
I posted this to The PhoneSex Space a while back in reply to a forum thread about domination styles and thought it would be appropriate here:
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Written by Lady Johanna
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Sunday, 23 November 2008 16:13 |
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Is femdom phonesex itself a fetish?
True, a lot of guys choose phone domination because they don't have a domme in real life, can't afford or are afraid of professional dominants, or simply can't be "out" in the BDSM scene due to their lives.
But some choose femdom phonesex because that is exactly what they want.
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Written by Lady Johanna
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Saturday, 29 November 2008 18:57 |

It's really convenient for those few of us who have managed to avoid the peer pressure to quit smoking that some of you get off on it!
For so long, cigarettes were the mark of the "bad" girl; how you knew someone was more "naughty" than "nice." I'm not surprised so many guys find it attractive.
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Written by Lady Johanna
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Sunday, 07 December 2008 14:51 |
A GREAT tip for sissies via our friend Ms. Tracy...
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Written by Lady Johanna
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Wednesday, 17 December 2008 21:18 |
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What is figging, you ask? Figging is playing with ginger. Not cooking with it (this isn't a recipe post), but playing with it.
If you don't "get" why figging is HOT (in all possible sense of the word), you need to hear my little story.
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Written by Lady Johanna
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Wednesday, 07 January 2009 12:23 |
My original post on this topic has gotten more hits and comments than everything else on this blog. So it seems time to revisit this topic a bit.
A lot of you have a lot of thoughts on this topic that I wanted to address and figured I could get a blogpost out of it.
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Written by Lady Johanna
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Friday, 23 January 2009 02:42 |
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Sounds are metal rods used by the medical community to dilate an urethra and/or cervix; sometimes they are called sounds, but sometimes they are called dilators. Since I'm discussing them here, you know it's not medical uses I'm interested in. ;)
This post has a lot of pictures. If you're interested in any specific item, clicking on the picture will take you to a site where you can see a larger version of the image and purchase the item if you wish.
Sounds are one of the toys useful for cock-and-ball torture. There's several common manufacturers of the medical versions: Hegar's, Van Buren's, Pratt's and Dittel's. Many fetish stores sell these, though generally under a different name. In addition, there's a lot of specialty items made just for cbt enthusiasts.
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Written by Lady Johanna
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Sunday, 01 February 2009 04:21 |
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There's two basic types of piercing, play-piercing during a scene and permanent piercing. Today, I'm going to discuss play piercing.
Piercing is one of those things that once weirded me out. When I first realized people did this, I was kind of shocked. And then, over time, I became obsessed with it.
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Written by Lady Johanna
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Tuesday, 17 February 2009 00:30 |
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It's probably hard to remember when looking at porn today, that a shaved pussy used to be a rare thing, those who were into them had a fetish.
Now that it's the fashion, some porn sites consider natural pussies to be the "hairy" fetish.
I confess I'm a hairy fetishist.
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Written by Lady Johanna
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Saturday, 21 February 2009 11:51 |
There is little so enjoyable to a sadist as the many various forms of tit torture. Especially if it's someone like me who just adores tits!
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Written by Lady Johanna
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Friday, 06 March 2009 18:03 |
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Something I just don't get is... why more women aren't into either the giantess or shrinking man fantasies. I mean, nearly every last one of us grew up playing with dolls and "making" them do what we wanted them to.
Talia and I were discussing this one evening, and the next day when she was working with a sponsor's content, she ran across this picture on the sponsor's site which she forwarded to me...
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Written by Lady Johanna
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Sunday, 22 March 2009 23:47 |
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Living with two furry serial killers on a regular basis is not so bad. They may torture mice regularly, but that doesn't bother me, except when they bring them home.
But it's spring - the time of year when our cats are catching baby bunnies. The problem with bunnies is they don't die silently like mice, they scream.
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